How to Give Her a Squirting Orgasm: The Complete Guide

For many women, the experience of self-pleasure doesn’t always align with partnered sex. Studies show that most women include vaginal stimulation during partnered sex, but fewer do so when masturbating. Additionally, women who use sexual aids, toys, or fantasies when masturbating may not do so during partnered sex. Since most heterosexual women don’t orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, the gap between masturbation and penetrative sex can sometimes be frustrating. However, you should know that the doggy style is one of the most powerful sex positions that can help you in making a woman squirt.

In fact, there is even a special massage you can use to become more orgasmic. There are also the squirter dimples that are an indicator that she can/ you can squirt. The good thing is, once you’ve done it once or twice, you’ll know the feeling and be able to do it again, often more easily. This position is great for women who know just how they need to hit their g-spot to squirt and who want more control.

If you’re skilled enough, do this while rubbing your clit. You can also use sex toys to make it easier for yourself to squirt and feel extra pleasure. Your partner will need to be really relaxed and in my personal experience that’s easier to do if I have something else to concentrate on, rather than having my vagina take centre stage. So a 69 position has worked well for me – providing welcome distraction when the pressure of trying to squirt is preventing it from actually happening.

G-spot stimulation is the main reason for squirting. To stimulate the G-spot, start by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina and curling them upwards towards the front walls of the vagina. Start slowly and gently curl your fingers upward in a ‘come here’ motion, directing them towards her belly button.

During climax, when you do have an increase in the amount of secretions that are built up, and then during ejaculation, some of that can be released. There are some women that obviously can do more than others, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s better. It’s a big topic that I have with some of my patients, because I think women feel that they have to do this. But, that’s actually something that has come about because of social perception, which I think actually comes from pornography.

While every individual’s experience is unique, gaining knowledge in this area can lead to a more fulfilling and respectful understanding of one’s own body or that of a partner. This article aims to demystify the process how to make a girl squirt, offering scientifically-backed insights and empathetic guidance. It’s not uncommon for a woman to experience any of these mental issues and not be able to squirt as a direct result. If your partner still wants to be face-to-face but wants more control than what Missionary position allows, try Cowgirl. One of the most popular toys on the market is the vibrator. In my opinion, squirting aftercare should consist of; hydration, physical touch like cuddles and kisses, words of affirmation, and a cozy blanket or towel.

As you start to have sex, she kneels down and pushes her feet back and together. You can grab her thighs while she supports her weight on your chest. To hit her g-spot more easily, place a pillow or cushion under her hips. This will tilt her pelvis upwards which also makes it easier for you to stimulate her clit. If she wants to lay back and relax while also being able to stimulate her clit, this position is just what you need. These curved devices sit comfortably in the vagina placing pressure in the exact right spot.

As you go down to perform cunnilingus on your girl, take one of your fingers and put it in her mouth. As she begins to suck, copy whatever she does on your finger on to her pussy. The tongue simply can’t apply enough pressure (initially) to make her explode. Kegel exercises can provide your partner with the ability to better control her squirting, and it will make her more confident in her abilities. One thing to keep in mind is how dehydrating this can be.