6 Ways to Help Her Have Orgasms

It’s true that the urge to pee can be pretty intense as you get closer to climax. You need to allow yourself to go past that point, though, to experience squirting and its pleasures. A common complaint from women who are learning how to squirt is that the urge to pee is too intense to overcome. This causes many women to stop prematurely for fear of wetting the bed. For that, we’ll also consider how squirting differs from female ejaculation which is another urethra-involved activity. If you are with a male who is either using his fingers or a vibrator/dildo, remind them (and if you are a dude reading this, keep in mind), they don’t have to go at it like an Olympic athlete.

This angle makes it easier to reach and stimulate the G-Spot. Another option is squatting, which can intensify the pressure on the G-Spot. Explore different positions to discover what works best for your body. Finally, in addition to the obvious challenges of the stop and go nature of shooting sex scenes for the performers and the crew, shooting squirting is particularly risky for even the cameras.

Note that she’s likelier to jet on the off chance that you stimulate her clit, so you might need to utilize a clitoral trigger toy during sex to help with that. After a certain point, the urge to pee will disappear. As you squirt, you’ll feel a burst of liquid release from the urethra in a way that’s difficult to explain without feeling it. Because again, this burst of liquid will not be linked to the urinary relief that you’re used to while urinating. Aside from the obvious physical characteristics is the difference in their journeys to the urethra.

These accelerators and brakes to your sex drive are known as the Dual Control Model. This causes your back to arch and allows your partner to thrust directly against your G Spot, perfect for hitting your Skene’s gland area and making you squirt. Optionally, you can place a pillow underneath your hips/butt to change the angle of penetration.

Whether you’re using toys or fingers, getting creative and trying new things can be key to enjoying yourself. However, it’s important to note that research on masturbation tends to be limited. So it’s understandable that you may feel confused about what to do when it comes to the big ‘M’ or the big ‘O’, let alone how to incorporate sex toys.

Because of its overrepresentation (and often misrepresentation) in pornography, people often sensationalize the act and argue over it in equal measure. There’s endless debate about squirting, including discourse on whether it actually even happens. But let it be known, people do squirt, and with enough patience, practice, and effort, many people with different types of bodies can harness their potential to squirt. While the fluid that you release when you squirt is chemically similar to urine, its makeup isn’t exactly the same. Both researchers and people who have reported on their squirting experience have found that the fluid of female ejaculate looks, tastes, and smells different from urine. ‘Use fingers, a curved toy woman squirt, or sex positions that target the G-spot to apply gentle pressure and strokes to this area,’ Dr Maragouthakis explained.

Regarding whether or not it’s pea is up to debate I think. I’m sure it’s pea sometimes though but in the end it doesn’t make much difference.Make sure your girl peas first perhaps, it help to bring down any reluctance towards squirting. Just watched your video, and found it to be extremely amazing! I am 39 years old and have been with my husband for 19 years now. In all the years that we have been having sex I have only had one explosive orgasm, where I was actually able to squirt. As great as it felt to me (amazing) it sort of freaked out my husband,which by the way was 5 years ago now.

These findings prove one thing—squirting isn’t rare—it’s just misunderstood. Most women have the hardware to squirt—but the software? Squirting is just the right mix of stimulation, pelvic floor relaxation, and letting go. The G-spot is a very sensible part of the vagina, and it is also the area which is responsible for female ejaculation. The cum (the female ejaculation liquid is also called “cum”) does not come from the G-spot; it actually comes out of the same hole where the urine comes out. Although female cum is not related to urine at all.

A good way to start is by figuring out what sensations feel best to you on your own. You can start out by directing them how to finger you and what external or internal stimulation has worked for you in the past to make yourself successfully squirt. Anybody with a vulva is theoretically capable of squirting this kind of fluid.